September 5, 2008
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How are you Managing your Finances as a Single?
We continue our series From Dorm Room to Altar (click to read past entries) with Brian's entry on Finance. Brian loves business and financial topics, going so far as to start some businesses of his own! He also is highly involved in a kids ministry at his church. He's an interesting Xangan that most of you don't know, and so I'm pleased to bring his writings to my site. Visit his Xanga here.
How are you managing your finances as a single?
The world revolves around
money; obtaining, spending, saving and giving it. It affects nearly every area
of our lives. Indeed, survey after survey says that money is one of the most
contentious issues in marriage. What better way to prepare for marriage than to
be on firm financial footing with good money habits in place? As a
Christ-follower, I believe we are to be good stewards of everything God has
entrusted to us. Regardless of religious beliefs, now is always the best
time to establish sound money management
practices.See how you line up on the
Financial Health Checklist below:1) Do you have a
budget? A
budget is THE absolute essential for most efficiently managing your money. You want to be able to tell your
money where to go rather than the other way around. Spend and save
intentionally. There are many great systems out there. Find one that works for
you: the envelopes budgeting system, MS Money
or similar software; and for you engineers and business grads, Excel
works great too. If interested in an Excel budget template, please contact me.
A budget, or spend plan, forms the basis for being able to build financial
goals. When can I afford a new car? When will I have enough for a house down
payment? How much of a ring can I afford? It is not only a tool to use
month-to-month to see how you’re doing. It is a tool that can be used to project
into the future where you will be financially and when. I project my budget
out through 2010. It motivates me to stick to my budget, so I can see that if I
follow my budget I will be able to buy a new car for cash at the end of 2010,
for example.2) Do you have an
emergency fund?
Have a minimum of $1000 set aside for emergencies. If you don’t have it,
get it fast…less than 30 days, work overtime, sell stuff, cut all non-essentials, whatever is necessary. With rare
exception, anyone with a full-time job can do it in that time frame. In fact,
during this month a small group of readers on my blog have entered into “Great Depression
Mode” for September to bolster emergency funds or
free up additional cash for other things. Several of my recent entries have
touched on preparing for going bare bones and blogging will continue throughout
the month on the topic. After you have $1000, aim for saving three months
worth of expenses to set aside in a separate account. Don’t be in a
situation where it’s necessary to go into debt to pay for an emergency that you
should have been preparing for all along.3) Do you have a
list of every debt you currently have? Lay every debt out on paper with the payoff
amount, interest rate, penalties for paying off early (if applicable) and the
minimum payment amount. What better time to pay down debt than when you’re
single! Common advice
says to pay off the lowest amount first and then snowball what was being
paid on that small debt into the next bigger debt until all the debt is wiped
out. There may be some merit in paying off the highest
interest rate debt first, but there are definite psychological benefits
to eliminating the number of people/businesses to whom you owe money. If you
have significant debt, look into ways to reducing the interest rates. If
you have paid your credit card on time for the last 6 months, call up the 1-800
# on the back of your card and ask if they can reduce the interest rate. Most
of the time they will. All it takes is a phone call. If it’s a struggle to pay
current debts, my very best advice is to run towards your creditors
rather than away from them. By calling them and showing a willingness to pay
and being honest about your current situation, they are going to work with you
and are often open to waiving fees, reducing interest rates or lowering
payments. Paying off debt is one thing, but
be sure to take care of the
cause of the debt problem (overspending) rather than just the symptom (high
interest payments) or else you’ll be back in the same boat in the future.4) Do you save
automatically?
Take savings right off the top rather than what’s left over at the end of the
month. The best way to do this is automate. Have it pulled right from
your paycheck if possible. Have it pulled right from your bank account
otherwise. Typically it’s best to have at least three different savings pots:
1) emergency fund build-up, 2) retirement and 3) major purchases (car, house,
ring). A high priority should be given to debt repayment, but not necessarily
to the neglect of all other
savings areas (especially if an employer offers matching
funds for retirement contributions). The best solution is typically a
combination of paying extra down on debt while addressing at least one of the
savings areas.Crown
Financial Ministries
is a Christian-based organization I highly respect. They have financial coaches
across the country who
are trained volunteers that
are willing to help with your specific situation to help keep you on track
toward true financial freedom. If you are
interested in speaking with a coach free of charge in your area, visit this link: http://www.crown.org/ForChurch/Solutions/MMCoaching/MMCoachingMain.aspxIf you have a good handle
on each of the four areas mentioned above, you have set yourself up for
success. Personal financial management is my passion. If I can help with
specific resources or you have a specific situation or question to run by me, I
am thrilled to help out where I can.Thanks Brian! Yes, we still have yet ANOTHER guest author for Sunday, so check for that. I'm taking a big break when this is done. Visit Brian here if you liked the post!
Comments (17)
before i was an idiot... not like i'm NOT an idiot, cuz I still am... but less of an idiot w/ my money now considering I have this goal in mind and while i hate to admit it... it will take some cash under the belt to be able to do it... but with God's grace, it's been a rather satisfying journey...
i'm still an idiot yes, but not so much w/ my money... anymore... i USED to be.... but i'm on a journey of greater responsibility.... someone once said that prosperity is the key to happiness... The Book of Proverbs says that prosperity comes from wisdom.... which must mean that wisdom is the key to happiness... which I think holds more truth than all the benjamins i could have in my checking account...
God pour on the wisdom then...
but i'm still an idiot... lol
Well, I am a first-time college student this year. I gotta say, I used to be so tight with my money, I would save it just because I never knew what to spend it on anyway & there were more important things to save for than the piddly things my gal friends would buy. Plus my family never had a lot of money, so I always felt the pressure of having not much to spend & wanted to do better than my parents (like saving money for 401k, for instance). However now that I am in college I'm definitely feeling the opposite...there is such a ridiculous amount of stuff that you can spend money on here, especially buying food out, which really adds up...even though I'm still with my parents, I'm in a new place & have more freedom so I feel like I have adopted the attitude "hey, I'm in college, I should live it up right?" Which when I stop & think about it, seems really stupid to me. It actually started in the summer when I started hanging out with my cousins, they were a bad influence on me...whenever we'd go anywhere I'd have to spend money & though I disapproved of their spending habits at first, it rubbed off on me...plus whenever you're really tight about something, once you are given the taste of the opposite, you go kind of crazy with it, like a rubber band that's pulled back tight...when given the next tiny bit of slack it will go flying across the room. Anyway, enough psychological analysis...now that I have a part-time job, I have set a budget for myself...1/3 for bills (only car bills right now), 1/3 to save, & 1/3 to spend. That seems pretty reasonable to me. I've also noticed that now that I have stepped into college world, it's really hard to see beyond the next 4 years...i.e. the things I'm saving for are things like a study abroad trip in a few years...I've stopped thinking about career land & IRA's & 401k's like I did in high school. Enough on my long winded post. Thank you for posting this series, every post definitely applies to me now that I am in college & the advice is nice!
I think I can pretty muc pass, but then again, after today my gross pay drops to below 10% of my current net pay. hmm...
The extra savings amout is really key (as it was emphasized above). I had some unexpected medical expenses this year...had to tap into some savings. Thankfully it was there.
I'm obviously not perfect with my finances. There were months when I looked at the money in my checking account and wondered why it seemed tighter to pay the mortgage this month than last, but I survive just fine. My sister actually sat down with my brother for the first time this month to set up a budget plan with him and to get him to start saving. He was floored to see where all his money was going.
This is a post 20-somethings should read.
And... I must add that I'm really glad I have no debts. No loans, no credit cards, and no money owed to anyone. Phew.
ahem, financial management seems to be psychological topic and we should investigate it. all the same, i luv money but all knowledge i have on it is counting it from time to time, which is certainly not enough to be managing it. Banks in hk now have low interest and my deposit there is just refrigerated, waiting for my summoning out. anyways, this is an informative post with certain good personal views.
I'm still living with my parents, going to college full-time and working 24 hrs/week, so my budget is pretty simple. I get paid every 2 weeks, so I recently started taking out the amount of cash I need for 2 weeks and the rest I leave in my bank account. Everything I buy, I use cash. I've divided my cash budget into 3 parts: tithes & offerings, gas, and "fun" money, which for me is about $25/week. I do think that's a little much, but it means I can go out to lunch with my friends from church on Sundays, pick up a shirt that's a great deal when I see it, etc.
I've found that spending only cash has made me a lot more conscious about what I buy.
I'm still useless at the old budget: but I do save, and I do know how much debt I have (one credit card bill at c. £150 plus mortgage). I also know I am VERY lucky. I also remember sitting at University, darning my jeans again, and sealing the darn with PVA glue, just to make the things last a little bit longer until I was earning. It was that bad. If you don't get into the habit of living on credit, it's actually pretty easy.
Crazy Aunt Purl (v. funny knitting blog) has an excellent budget sheet. I did try with that and I do recommend it. Also merely writing down your purchases day by day makes you mindful of what you spend.
~x~
I love money advice because I never feel like I know what I'm doing in that arena. I especially need help in creating a budget. I usually save automatically (I manually put money aside) and have an emergency fund but whenever I take a trip (as I did last week) that gets eaten into. Now taht I'm no longer living with my parents (temporarily I hope) I'm a little nervous about having money to do things like trips etc since I have to handle bills, and I'm not making much. Darn grad student loans.
It's when I read posts like this that I'm glad of the free college fees policy in my country. I know too many friends in the US who spent years paying back student loans. I usually manage to save money simply because I'm not a big spender. I only go out once every few weeks and even when I do I don't drink much. A low tolerance for alcohol can mean an inexpensive night out
I need to learn how to budget properly though because too often I take the money I have for granted. Otherwise I'm likely to end up in serious debt whenever I go out into the world on my own.
yes more 20 somethings should read this post because not all of them have financial planning drilled into their heads from a young age. i just graduated but have nothing more than the emergency-new-laptop-purchase from march of my final semester that i put on my credit card to pay off. school was 100% paid for out of the stock market fund i started at 16 and fun came from the money i earned working. i also shop like there is no tomorrow. it's just about knowing how to spend and when not to!
Great post, again LOL!
could I get a copy of the excel template pleasE?
Excellent advice!
Very good advice. I didn't save any in my twenties (though I did try), because I just couldn't seem to wait to purchase what I wanted. Thankfully I've learned from that and am now in decent financial shape. Crown Ministries has helped a lot of people... glad to see your recommendation to the masses.
I always had more talent for making money than keeping it. An important subject.
I think I need to start getting into Depression mode. lol That and find a job ASAP.
wow and i thought i'm the only person in this world sharing my excel monthly financial workbook with people. good to know i'm on the right track and learned a few extra tips. thanks!
1.) Yes, I sort of have a budget... It is not on paper but in my head... roughly I live on 20% - 30% of my income and save all the rest.......... 2.) Yes, I have an emergency fund.. I think your number for that is way too low. I feel better knowing I can live for at least 6 months with just what is in my primary checking account.... 3.) Thankfully I have no debt.... I believe if God orders it he pays for it so if the money is not there for what I want then I must not need it. 4.) Yes I save I am hoping to pay cash for my first home when the time comes. I have half of what I need for my dream home... but enough to buy a more modest place now if I needed to.... I think you should have added investments too. I am not into really big risks but I think putting some money into investments is a good idea as well.
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