December 17, 2011

  • Boring Update about My Life, and Other Things

    So I'm finally done with work for a bit. I connived a friend into helping me deliver my elliptical machine from Sears. The parts are now all over my apartment. Assembly is going to be a pain but I need to exercise more and this is the way to do it. Just had some Chipotle too, yum, and the place was almost empty. In-out in 20 minutes, yay! Also, I'm glad to see Meebo Chat is back, but please don't IM me at 1AM!

    The other day, Forever Musing asked a great question about whether there are any reasons why homosexuality would be immoral if the Bible never said anything about it. I thought it was very much worth addressing, but I wanted to address it in a way that wouldn't bring out the crazy folks on Xanga. So apologies if you really wanted to know more about my life and instead are getting this instead, heh.

    Most non-religious concerns about non-heterosexual sex are two-fold. One is a biological design problem: crudely put, male and female reproductive systems appear to have been designed for each other, and reproduction can only happen naturally when a male and female have sex. The second is a health problem: at various times, depression, STD's, and death have been more widespread in non-heterosexual communities. I don't have the latest stats on me and am too lazy to look them up. It's Saturday for a reason, heh. Of course, advocates of homosexuality have various reasons to disagree with those two concerns (cultural bias, persecution, and freedom of choice being a few).

    I must emphasize that I am not doing a full debate here, I'm just sketching under what conditions homosexuality could be determined to be immoral without being specifically prohibited in the Bible. So let's then move to a planet where all our religious and culture baggage is missing and take a look.

    In the end, both these non-religious concerns of biological design and health actually fit under a bigger issue. Let's pretend that we are on a planet much different than we inhabit now. Forget culture and intelligence and religion and context for a moment. For homosexuality to be immoral, men and women in general must be fundamentally different from each other, not just in body, but also in other ways. This is another way of saying that opposites attract, and that men and women in some way are uniquely designed to meet one another's needs in a way that same-gender lovers cannot, due to nature, not nurture. (Yes, ironically the best argument turns into a "Born This Way" argument, and yes, I'm amused about it too.) It can't be a cultural thing: there must be something about non-heterosexual sex that is against some natural law or pattern itself. There may be feminine men and masculine women, but at the end of the day, there would be a sharp difference between genders that continues even though men and women do the same work and are treated equally.

    If the difference existed, then one might argue that nature itself does indeed discourage homosexual behavior, and that our outward bodily differences are merely a symptom of the deeper differences within. This now becomes signalling behavior of sorts, just as a poisonous frog might be a bright color on the outside to discourage predators from eating it. Mind you, it doesn't mean that anyone who engages in non-heterosexual behavior instantly dies (Do I really have to explain this? Sad that I do). Immoral is not directly related to real-life punishment and consequences, something that way too many would-be advisers and judges forget.

    Some indications of whether males and females are fundamentally designed/evolved differently, if it is true, would be as follows. Keep in mind this is a rough sketch, and I am not sure all these potential experiments are properly designed.

    *Heterosexuals, as a whole, would show a variety of fundamental, innate differences between males and females that could not be chalked up to social constructs or upbringing. For example, males and females serving in the Army, trained and taught in the same ways and same methods, would still have fundamentally different ways of doing their work.
    *Homosexuals/Lesbians/Bisexuals would, on non-sexualized traits, still score more closely to their own gender regardless of who they are having sex with.
    *Trans, once they had been operated on and taken hormones, would indeed show changes of emotion and thought associated with their new gender. This one was the hardest one to think of, but it seems to me that if surgery and drugs are involved, that should essentially change nature. One could also argue that the changes are more nurture-related. Ouch, now my head hurts trying to get the logic right.
    *Human protandry cases, such as here, would show that when females become males physically, they also take on the typical male mindset and desires, and vice-versa.

    To me, this would build a non-Biblical case for finding homosexuality immoral: that it goes against the natural order of things and that our biological differences in gender are merely symptoms and signals of the deeper differences that are bound up within us. Here's the bad news: good luck definitely proving either side! But there you have it, my best take on whether non-Biblical grounds for finding homosexuality immoral exist. Thoughts? I am trying to make this as theoretical as possible to answer @Forever_Musing question. Please try to keep your response polite and realize that people who think differently than you will read your comment.

Comments (11)

  • I wonder how many people will jump down your throat about this.... But I won't be one of 'em!

  • I just wanted to say, I was reading this and heard your voice. was swell =)

  • This is a very interesting read. I personally have nothing to offer on it as I am neutral about this particular issue but I thought I'd let you know that I enjoyed reading! :)  

  • This was an interesting read... I was looking forward to a "boring" not so boring update haha 

    Hope everything is going well! 

  • But the only time youre not away is at 1am!

  • Johnnnn, how are you?

    Read this and while I get all the logic, some things confused me.

    "Most non-religious concerns about non-heterosexual sex are two-fold. One
    is a biological design problem: crudely put, male and female
    reproductive systems appear to have been designed for each other, and
    reproduction can only happen naturally when a male and female have sex."

    So a non-religious concern involves whether a partner in a sexual act can reproduce from the act? Why is that a concern for someone who is non-religious? People still have heterosexual relationships and they are still reproducing, so if the case is for our species dying off, I don't think that's happening anytime soon (barring some catastrophic event in which we all wake up wanting to engage in same-sex sexual relations or just can't reproduce at all).

     I'm trying to figure  out what you mean about sex/reproduction and lack there of being immoral,  so I'm asking honestly. I know you said to remove culture and pretend we're on a different planet but we're in the here and now 2011 and people don't strictly have sex to reproduce in 2011. If we don't bring religion into this particular point, you could say that we have sex for different reasons.  And, if we're not talking about reproductive systems, same sex couples can actually do that to each other with their bodies. That's all besides the point, though.

    So i guess my real question is, why exactly are we using the world "immoral" if we are taking religion out of the question? Because yes, in religion, it would be "immoral" or taboo to have sex for pleasure as opposed to reproduction.  But If we're taking about biology, sex can be broken down basically into an orifice and nerve endings and friction. Crude, but it's pretty easy to see that the "going against nature" thing doesn't hold up biologically. Orifices, nerve endings, friction. That's sex on a strict bodily level.

    "The second is a health problem: at various times, depression, STD's, and
    death have been more widespread in non-heterosexual communities."
    All of these things can happen in hetero relationships. I find it hard to believe that a concern against homosexuality is fear that more people will be depressed or die or have STD's. Because then we would ban friendships, relationships and sex all together. People get depressed . People get STD's from hetero sex too. And yes, lots of gay men died from HIV and AID's but all of that has decreased and the number one killer is still heart disease. We could argue that it's immoral to be fat, then. And tell fat people they can't be fat. Because it makes us really sick and depressed and also makes us die.

    You know I still have love for you. And generally I'm very neutral on this topic because my business is my business as everyone else's business is their own business. But your points just need some clarification from me before I can really understand them, especially if you're trying to break them down on a biological level.

  • You might have a case for arguing emotionally or spiritually immoral, but it would only conceivably psychically immoral if one is taking hormones or having plastic surgery.I do not think people fully understand the weight of what happens when giving into such desires instead of keeping them controlled. Yes, in some instances they manage, but it sound like it would be exhausting all around for someone to feel like they were doing something wrong or different, and never be able to get unstuck. the problem is that homosexuals feel that if everyone else changed their mind, things would be ok, but I am not so sure. There will always be people who will judge them and two, there will always be people who see it as unnatural.

    With all that said, I do agree with the argument of biology and nature, that certain parts fit together. And I do believe from my faith, that God is the one who created male and female, for a reason. However, while biblically I think one might call homosexual an immoral act because it rebels against God and his created order. I think you have a hard time defending it based on the humanities or philosophically, unless you are talking about the effects it has on everyone, not just the homosexual individual but also all those surrounding them, their friends, their community, and their family. All are affected by the choices of one individual. Indeed the rates you mentioned are higher among homosexuals.

    As a Christians, I can tell you I do not believe hate is the answer, nor is acceptance, nor trying to change anyone else. All I can think is offering them love, and my own opinion, when asked. But I wonder very often if many, jumping on the anti-homsexual bandwagon, find that while pointing and yelling at others, they are really yelling at themselves. Are any of us yelling at our won selves? How could we have been taken in our own sins? How could we have thought they were ok? How could we have thought there wouldn't be dire consequences? Jesus says ask and you shall receive. Sometimes I think it works both ways. When we ask to be let go to our own thing and devices, God lets us have free will, and the consequences of that decision are always our own.

  • i enjoyed your perspective on this. as a person who is often conflicted as to whether or not homosexuality is immoral, it's interesting to read a different take on it. cheers! 

  • First of all, the protandry article was one of the most interesting things that I have read in a long time. You have argued this point quite successfully. I definitely don't agree with it though, I'm someone who believes in letting people do what they want, as long long as no one gets hurt. Although, I must admit that I have thought about how sexually compatible men and women are in terms are reproduction while people of the same sex are not. 

  • what an update! Love it!

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