Hey New Baby,
I see you there, strutting your stuff around in the cold weather while the men lift their glasses to you and the women sigh and coo. You probably think you're something else, don't you? Yes, it must be nice to hear how "You're different" and "I needed a change, I'm so glad you're here!" I see how you look at me, with those eyes of pity, thinking my time is done. Ah, it's amazing how the young forget how the old once were young! You think I never was the toast of the town? They ADORED me.
I remember when men used to talk to me like that. I was excited, just like you. I believed their promises. Then the complaints started coming. "I lost my job, and its your fault." "You were supposed to be different!" "You're just like all the others!" They blamed me for old loves lost and new loves found. They blamed me for jobs lost and jobs kept. They shoved me away and hoped I would leave, when I gave them everything I had, until I was spent and there was no time left. It's not my fault that what I gave them wasn't enough. They could have been perfectly happy, if only they had used me right!
Want to know a little secret? Despite what they say, it isn't about you. It's about them and their projections on you. Soon enough they'll be hooting and hollering at the next young hot thing, and you'll be left as nothing more than a memory. They'll never interact with you again, and they'll sound grateful for it. I hope they treat you better than they did me. But some people never change. So Happy New Year, 2011...from your older sister, 2010.
I often wonder why we insist on using analogy that a year is an old man/young baby. I kind of liked this twist on the old analogy. Hope you did too.
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