December 19, 2009

  • Xanga Meetup Album

    So, for those who care, I put up some photos of my xanga meet-ups since 2006? or so. I traveled a lot for work/vacation, and I met Xangans nearly everywhere I went. The album is Here (EDIT: FIXED LINK), but it only contains the ones where I remembered to take a photo (duh). I want to say, I liked everyone I met. No one has disappointed me yet--not one! That's a tribute to how honest you all were, and how kind and thoughtful. I wish you all lived closer to me!

    I didn't put names with the pictures. I'm a little cautious that way. If the person in the photo would like to ID themselves, they may in the comments, of course.

    OK, enough mushiness, haha. Just a few common-sense reminders, as always, because I'm a cautionary grouchy-pants and would hate for someone to get hurt:
    (1) ALWAYS tell someone else where you're going on a meet-up and what time you'll be back. Let the person you're meeting know "I just texted so-and-so about our meeting" so she/he knows that other people know.
    (2) ALWAYS meet in a public place if possible, and try to have your own transportation to/from the place.
    (3) Do NOT give out name/#/FB/other info unless the other person is trustworthy and/or will give their info first. This one especially applies to the ladies--be careful about giving out your personal info too quickly. You may just ask the guy for his # and not give yours, for example. I feel it's the guy's duty to give info, just because of how our society is.
    (4) Do NOT go if it doesn't feel right. Cancel. Make an excuse.
    (5) Do NOT meet people that are not "well-respected." If the person only comments on your blog, and you never see them talk to other people or have other people write back, I would be VERY suspicious.
    (6) If you're not sure, WAIT. Be suspicious of someone who pushes too hard for a meeting, or says "I'll never ever come this way again." Talk to a person as much as possible before meeting, so you can make sure the person will be fun to meet.
    The End. Merry Christmas!

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