March 23, 2011
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On Polished Posts vs. Raves and Rants
When I get an idea for a Xanga post, it may stay in my head for days before I actually post it. It thus gets some time to marinate and age well until it comes forth freshly seasoned for your blogonomical consumption. (Whoa, "nom" can also be seen as an abbreviation of gastronomical. MIND. BLOWN.) I do love writing a post where I feel like each word was already written, and I am merely changing the font color to make it visible for all.
The problem is that often a highly polished post gives no room for reader interaction. It seems at times that the more well-written a post is, the less likely it is to actually create a good conversation. At times on the web, there's an amusing phenomenon where having slight errors and inconsistencies, or publishing something that isn't quite airtight in its arguments, actually creates a better post. As people rush to debate and correct and polish, they co-create with the original writer, and it provides a possibility for a better post than what might have occurred otherwise. Raving and ranting, even though it may seem juvenile, can actually help create truth and uncover hidden frustrations and feelings.
However, there's a point at which unpolished posts create harm. For example, writing a post titled "Why are Greek People so Argumentative!" and then babbling about it would be a poor use of ranting (example as well of the UCLA video that offended Asian folk). When writing about an ethnic category or type of person, ranting and using a broad brush creates an unfair feeling of cruelty and judgment. If one is going to tread on such areas, one should be classy enough to create airtight, reasoned arguments. It's exactly why I don't read some of the more popular bloggers. They intentionally slur groups for pageviews, and then act as if they are creating art or discussion instead of just manipulating and offending for amusement. Rudeness, even when hidden behind humor, is rudeness. I'm reminded of Solomon's proverb that "Like a madman who shoots flaming arrows, arrows, and death, so is the person who tricks his neighbor and says, 'I was only joking!'"
In the end, I decided to private Monday's post for now. I do sometimes think I should be a little more emotional and direct in my posts. Those of you who know me off Xanga know I can be quite opinionated at times. But words have power, and although too much polish can be intimidating and perfectionistic, too little polish can be offensive. It's a delicate dance, but one worth undertaking, just as the chef attempts to perfectly time when the dish is removed from the oven. Seasoning one's speech with salt and avoiding idle words can become frustrating at times, but the peace and joy that result are well worth it. So back to the kitchen it is, with the tap shoes on and the apron at the ready. Thanks for reading this rather self-centered, mundane take on the writing process.
Comments (17)
I guess it really just boils down to the fact that everything needs a balance. For me personally, my blog is just that, it's my place to say what's on my mind and do my own thing. I don't worry about being perfectly polished, because frankly, I'm not a perfect person to begin with. I'm full of flaws and my blog reflects that in many aspects.
I do enjoy having things open for discussion, differences of opinions are what give any relationship depth.
What seems to happen most to me is I polish something and it gets next to nothing. The stuff I tend to get reccs on is just me "ranting and raving".
The reason why I post only once or twice a month (now once a month) because I don't publish those post I've had written when even me find it useless and wasting time for readers. I am not a perfectionist but everytime I write I edit it and re-edit then junk a post that never inspire the readers. Everytime I pause to write, the first thing that comes to my mind, " Does my thoughts inspire my reader? Will it gives a difference to their lives? Are thoughts in my post worth learning, remembering and will it givs smile to their faces before living my site? ". Of course, we don't write to impress but to express. The fact that everyone deserves something to read that can brighten their day is the best reason to express what is worth expressing. So yeah, when I am down and depressed, I don't write them down to show everyone my rants against the world. The world has enough of its own trouble and so are some xangans.
I love this post. Something we need to ponder. Cheers!
"So back to the kitchen it is, with the tap shoes on and the apron at the ready."
I demand pictures!
I guess I missed the Monday post and now I'm curious but if you feel the need to pull it then you probably should. I've found you to have a good sense of judgement. Like you I find that the less polished posts tend to make for a "funner" conversation than the perfectly written ones but I don't think I've ever managed a perfectly written one so I can't say for sure.
Words are powerful indeed.
I wouldn't call this self-centered at all. It's an important observation and raises a lot of interesting issues that bear discussing...which begs the question: was it a hastily thrown-together rant, or is it polished?
I guess I missed the original post that inspired this reflection, but I think I agree with you philosophically on the major points you made.
Mind = Blown, indeed. Great post!
I generally write polished posts in that I do think about them and edit it a lot to make sure it sounds alright. I think that they still leave some room for interaction, but I can see where you're coming from. Sometimes a post is so polished that it leaves reader wordless.
I enjoyed your Monday post. I didn't agree with it but that's what makes the world go round. I agree polished posts don't collect as many comments as one-off rants.
I remember back in the day when MathematicalBagpiper was still around spouting drivel about doctors, I challenged him to a debate. We both had to write posts explaining our positions. His was a rant, whereas mine had footnotes and references. I didn't get an awful lot of comments, and at the time, I kind of wondered why. Did I render him speechless? Was the argument that bulletproof? I kind of doubt it, but it definitely illustrates your point that highly polished posts can back out reader interaction.
There are times when the words seem to tumble from my mind fully-formed and realized and in order off the cuff but they are so few and far between that I find it depressing more than anything else once the moment is over.
Well, I don't know if I'm polished or not, but my posts are more focused on the readers and leave room for conversations. One needs to balance things. You can't be egregious just for the sake of convos and you can't be Shakespeare whose work isn't understood by most (oh, we have that type too on xanga!). What is extra polished work if it doesn't grab attention? At the same time, using stupid, overused controversies like many of the popular bloggers here do might get traffic, but those posts are really just... not good.
yeah...sometimes overly polished blogs put me to sleep.
I do like when people put effort into blogging though....:) I like how you discussed this here...:D
I agree, polishing posts always takes a few days and maybe I'm just not ready to post or un-private certain things right away.
Whether or not it is self-centered, it is certainly relevant for all of us. I recently posted something without editing it, and LKJSlain had some extremely eye-opening comments on it. The edited version elicited only compliments. Those are lovely, but not as helpful in identifying my communication weaknesses.
You are intimidating because you always seem absolutely sure of yourself.
Kinda bums me out, cuz I missed the post entirely!
It's been a crazy hectic week. We should chat soon so I can catch you up a little.
@Renaissance_Phoenix - Sounds good
I got in late today, but this weekend I'm more free.
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